Topic: Are there any details in art that almost hit your fetish, but metaphorically make you wish the art had a variant without it?

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I love all women, but I love the motherly type the most. The mother figure is the ultimate expression of absolute love.

But to me, baby bottles throw off the vibe completely, like diapers. Suddenly it's weird. Even if the milk in the bottle came from her, I would rather have it straight from the tap, if you know what I mean. Or it could come from a mug. Or a barrel. Anything but a baby bottle. Honestly, I'm not sure why I feel this way. When I see a milf holding a baby bottle, it makes me wish there was a variant of the art where she has something else in that hand, or nothing at all.

I don't want this to turn into a boring "bash kinks you hate" thread so please be civil about this and only mention stuff you probably should like but don't. Stuff that should be part of your fetish but isn't.

I'm curious if there are any other kinks you have that feel like your brain couldn't complete its of that kink and ended up missing some files.

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It seems like it's a contractual obligation that any porn involving snakes must have a Jungle Book's Kaa-style mind control element to it, complete alternating color eye bands.

I love a man's chest, but I hate nipples. I can deal with nipples if they're just there, but when they start being played with or they start lactating I'm like they're doing too much. There is exactly one person who's nipples I have liked the look of and it was CaptainSparklez. I'm not too big on anime dudes, but I do love how often they don't have the nips.

I fucking love musk but I hate the green stink clouds of smelliness art. It's so stupid because they're so similar but it's like
(character is surrounded by white clouds) = "ooh hot!"
(character is surrounded by green clouds) = "EW"

emionix said:
I fucking love musk but I hate the green stink clouds of smelliness art. It's so stupid because they're so similar but it's like
(character is surrounded by white clouds) = "ooh hot!"
(character is surrounded by green clouds) = "EW"

I do get what you mean. I associate white clouds with a general musk, but the green (or sometimes yellow?) with a thick smell that is usually considered bad like a fart or a burp. The white clouds are really just steam so it's just water (sweat, in this case) being carried away on a little cloud, but any other colour usually implies there's something else floating in it.

I like being called female. I like F4F and M4F ASMRs.

Being called babygirl... and babe... and being told my skin and boobs are amazing... I'm blushing... Do I really look cute in this maid outfit?

But there was one F4TF video that was all "I see you're a woman and NOT A MAN and you're NOT MANLY AT ALL WITH NO MUSCLES and NO DICK AND NO BALLS and wow you must be a GIRL because you play with GIRLY stuff AND YOU HAVE NO CHEST HAIR" and dude wtf I thought we were friends. Compliment my femininity, don't insult my masculinity.

This probably sounds insane. I am questioning my gender and I know I like to be called a woman. But I still hate being called not enough of a man.

Is this a common experience? Or am I just going insane?

redphoenix42 said:
I like being called female. I like F4F and M4F ASMRs.

Being called babygirl... and babe... and being told my skin and boobs are amazing... I'm blushing... Do I really look cute in this maid outfit?

But there was one F4TF video that was all "I see you're a woman and NOT A MAN and you're NOT MANLY AT ALL WITH NO MUSCLES and NO DICK AND NO BALLS and wow you must be a GIRL because you play with GIRLY stuff AND YOU HAVE NO CHEST HAIR" and dude wtf I thought we were friends. Compliment my femininity, don't insult my masculinity.

This probably sounds insane. I am questioning my gender and I know I like to be called a woman. But I still hate being called not enough of a man.

Is this a common experience? Or am I just going insane?

detrans, and stuff in that same sort of realm, is kind of extremely hit-or-miss. I don't even mind the negative/humiliation stuff most of the time, but some times it just feels kinda... yucky (and not in a fun way). it's really hard to give concrete reasons as to why it works sometimes and why it doesn't work others, either, it just feels like the author isn't writing from/with the right perspective on the topic or something.

this is one of the things what I was thinking about when I posted in the other thread talking about stuff feeling depersonalizing.

dba_afish said:
detrans, and stuff in that same sort of realm, is kind of extremely hit-or-miss. I don't even mind the negative/humiliation stuff most of the time, but some times it just feels kinda... yucky (and not in a fun way). it's really hard to give concrete reasons as to why it works sometimes and why it doesn't work others, either, it just feels like the author isn't writing from/with the right perspective on the topic or something.

this is one of the things what I was thinking about when I posted in the other thread talking about stuff feeling depersonalizing.

Sorry, I'm not sure I understand what you mean.

redphoenix42 said:
Sorry, I'm not sure I understand what you mean.

detransition kink (or just detrans) is a kink where a trans character is encouraged or forced to conform to their birth-assigned gender. there's other stuff that I'd categorise similarly with gender non-conforming characters similarly made to essentially "pick a side". in my opinion the stuff that "works" is essentially written with it being a fantasy about becoming "normal" or, like, uncomplicated.

so I think it's kinda similar to what you were describing.

sometimes it involves humiliation stuff, sometimes it involves hypnosis, sometimes it's neither just more low-key/"gentle".

I can't really explain why I like some of it and why I don't like other examples of it, because for me it's not because it feels mean or rude or degrading or anything. the best way I can describe it is that it feels like it's being written with the wrong perspective in mind, like it's not trying to appeal to the normal target audience, or even really taking their perspective into mind.

Facesitting pics with farts

I don't mind them in SOME contexts, but if the context is not there, I will try and fave only the fartless alt

Any time I see the 'anon' pattern of a faceless guy, a guy literally named anon, and especially if he's green for some reason, it just takes me right out of everything regardless how closely the rest of what is going on matches my normal interests.

I know some artists are not into drawing full uncensored nudity, but it feels like some of them split hairs with how close they get to it without actually showing it.

Like, I saw someone's art of their character doing the "table cat-face vulva" meme. Technically they didn't actually show the vulva or labia, but it was ever so close, without underwear.

It gets a bit tiresome.

dba_afish said:
detransition kink (or just detrans) is a kink where a trans character is encouraged or forced to conform to their birth-assigned gender. there's other stuff that I'd categorise similarly with gender non-conforming characters similarly made to essentially "pick a side". in my opinion the stuff that "works" is essentially written with it being a fantasy about becoming "normal" or, like, uncomplicated.

so I think it's kinda similar to what you were describing.

sometimes it involves humiliation stuff, sometimes it involves hypnosis, sometimes it's neither just more low-key/"gentle".

I can't really explain why I like some of it and why I don't like other examples of it, because for me it's not because it feels mean or rude or degrading or anything. the best way I can describe it is that it feels like it's being written with the wrong perspective in mind, like it's not trying to appeal to the normal target audience, or even really taking their perspective into mind.

So like when Snoot Game had Fang drop the non-binary thing?

I don't know why some people call deciding to stop calling yourself nonbinary detransitioning. Isn't it too sudden to be called detransitioning? What changes? Your music taste? Paperwork to change your name to something besides Lilith?

orangeleaf said:
Any time I see the 'anon' pattern of a faceless guy, a guy literally named anon, and especially if he's green for some reason, it just takes me right out of everything regardless how closely the rest of what is going on matches my normal interests.

I can't tell which looks goofier. John Blue Archive having a child's drawing taped to his face, Trainer from Uma Musume having a giant T for a face, or Anon the greenskin with a question mark for a face. If people want a humanoid representation of the abstract concept of a person or role just have the costuming of the uniform dominate the character design. Maybe frame the whole face in shadow like you're Shadow Dio or keep the face offscreen.

dixon_miaz said:
idk if this counts but im ALMOST attracted to women, vaginas ruin it for me

Opposite for me with guys. I like dicks, but men I dont.

dba_afish said:
detransition kink (or just detrans) is a kink where a trans character is encouraged or forced to conform to their birth-assigned gender. there's other stuff that I'd categorise similarly with gender non-conforming characters similarly made to essentially "pick a side". in my opinion the stuff that "works" is essentially written with it being a fantasy about becoming "normal" or, like, uncomplicated.

so I think it's kinda similar to what you were describing.

sometimes it involves humiliation stuff, sometimes it involves hypnosis, sometimes it's neither just more low-key/"gentle".

I can't really explain why I like some of it and why I don't like other examples of it, because for me it's not because it feels mean or rude or degrading or anything. the best way I can describe it is that it feels like it's being written with the wrong perspective in mind, like it's not trying to appeal to the normal target audience, or even really taking their perspective into mind.

It's not my kink, but yeah I think I get what you mean. Someone eroticizing their own trauma/discomfort has a VERY different vibe from someone eroticizing their own bigotry.

Does it count if you dislike seeing breastmilk or cum being wasted? If it isn't used for breeding, or for sexual purposes, it feels like a waste, especially when it just goes down the drain. Would it kill the characters to grab a bucket, or ready an orfice?

1. I like asses, but not when you can see the asshole. (Not sure why.)

2. Any pregnancy artwork that involves birthing.

3. Any "X-ray" stuff or anything that involves showing the character's insides. (Like someone's dick inside of somebody or insemination or whatever.)

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I've recently become intrigued by foreskin. But what is an immediate turn off is if it includes smegma.

emionix said:
I fucking love musk but I hate the green stink clouds of smelliness art. It's so stupid because they're so similar but it's like
(character is surrounded by white clouds) = "ooh hot!"
(character is surrounded by green clouds) = "EW"

100% agree. And along those same lines: when an artist uses a shade of off-white for cum that is slightly too yellow. Drives me insane

ironcladskye said:
100% agree. And along those same lines: when an artist uses a shade of off-white for cum that is slightly too yellow. Drives me insane

I definitely get distracted by the "dude, that can't be a healthy sign" response.

georgie_leech said:
I definitely get distracted by the "dude, that can't be a healthy sign" response.

Don't get me started on when they exaggerate the thickness of cum so severely it's literally just shit. Like, you can tell the artist wanted to draw shit, and has practiced drawing shit far more than drawing cum.

Not a complete turnoff but I really don't like abdominal bulges, especially extreme ones. They take me out of my colorful animal people porn.

redphoenix42 said:
I don't know why some people call deciding to stop calling yourself nonbinary detransitioning. Isn't it too sudden to be called detransitioning? What changes? Your music taste? Paperwork to change your name to something besides Lilith?

If you considered yourself trans and now don't that is detransitioning lol. A lot of nonbinary people do seek medical transition and even if they don't they still need to socially detransition ie telling people to refer to them with different gendered or pronouns.

verbmynoun88 said:
I've recently become intrigued by foreskin. But what is an immediate turn off is if it includes smegma.

100% agree. Skin is wonderful, but practically all artists who draw prominent foreskin are also into filth.

I'll also add pubes. I like a good bush, but the "stray pubes in the mouth" thing makes me gag.

scorpi032 said:
100% agree. Skin is wonderful, but practically all artists who draw prominent foreskin are also into filth.

I'll also add pubes. I like a good bush, but the "stray pubes in the mouth" thing makes me gag.

Can't say I've seen that before on here, but I'm totally with you on that

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I'll repost what I said on topic #65499, since it probably actually belongs here:
post #3410306 <- perhaps the hottest vore picture on the site cuz I know he won't get swallowed
Whole body licked and drenched in saliva: hot
Going down someone's throat and into their stomach: not
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Also,
vagina = hot, boobs = not
...moobs, udders (on feral characters or masculine characters), and male_lactation are hot though.

emionix said:
I fucking love musk but I hate the green stink clouds of smelliness art. It's so stupid because they're so similar but it's like
(character is surrounded by white clouds) = "ooh hot!"
(character is surrounded by green clouds) = "EW"

Yeah, I get this

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crocogator said:
Also,
vagina = hot, boobs = not
...moobs, udders (on feral characters or masculine characters), and male_lactation are hot though.

literally EXACT opposite for me. the duality of man

dixon_miaz said:
literally EXACT opposite for me. the duality of man

The only male lactation art I ever liked had a man experience unwilling transformation into a cow man (Not a bull but specifically a cow man), his penis and balls mutating into a hybrid of penis and udders, with testicles inside, and with extra penises forming where an udder's extra bulges go. He needed milking, and he ejaculated from her single squeeze and tug, only for his orgasm to stop suddenly when she let go. He needed more, he always needed more, he was putty in her hands. Her having absolute power over his relief and orgasm in his artificially induced hour of need was hot. Is there a tag for that? Sure there's a penis_milking tag but it refers to milking semen from penises, not the penis and balls overflowing with milk mixed with semen.

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also, I can't believe I forgot to mention this until now...

When the HOT BREEDABLE MILF is having a perfectly good pic of her ruined by some ugly bastards or ugly goblins or kids or whatever. Removing the layer they're on would be so easy and unruin the image.

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and when the author doesn't know how sensitive balls are so she doesn't notice her character's clothes or a strap horribly crushing and constricting the balls. They're not boobs. Even if you draw them the size of breasts they're still not boobs.

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